Critical mass and inertia are great concepts and ones you can apply to your own life. Understanding these two principles will change how you approach everything you’re trying to achieve. First, let’s start with critical mass. Reaching Critical Mass Critical mass is the term used when the minimum amount needed for something to happen is…
You’re looking to make the big move. The one decision that changes everything. The perfect plan that guarantees success. Here’s a fact: for most of us, it doesn’t exist. Here’s what does exist: chaos. Not the panic kind, not the mess kind. The mathematical kind. The kind that means small changes in what you do…
Finding life difficult? Maybe you’re aiming too high. Ever thought about aiming for being only one percent better each day? That’s all. Not ten percent. Not revolutionary change. Not dramatic transformation. Just one percent better. Do that consistently, compound it over time, and you’ll end up somewhere completely different from where you started. This is…
You’re focused on the destination. The goal, the achievement, the finish line. That’s what drives you, what gets you out of bed, what keeps you pushing forward. But here’s what you’re missing while you’re fixated on where you’re going. The journey itself is changing you in ways the destination never will. I learned this the…
Moving away from chaos, we need to move on to its close friend: causality. Causality is simple in theory. It’s the relationship between an event (the cause) and a second event (the effect), where the second event is understood as a consequence of the first. Press the button, the light turns on. Touch the fire,…
You’ve finished this course, which was designed to help you cope when you find yourself in a new situation. Well done, genuinely, for getting this far. I hope you’ve reflected after each article and made some small changes in your mindset, your approach, and your life. Most people don’t get this far. I told you…
“It’s not fair.” I hear this expression at least every week. Usually from people who aren’t particularly happy with their lot in life, especially when they feel others have more than them. Sometimes it’s said with resignation, sometimes with anger, sometimes with genuine bewilderment that the universe is out to get them or hasn’t arranged…
Starting is easy. Sustained progress is the hard part. Anyone can begin. You’ve begun dozens of times. The gym membership in January. The business idea in March. The diet that lasted eleven days. The side project that filled a weekend before quietly disappearing. Beginning feels like progress because it involves movement. But movement without direction,…
Remembering the Fallacy of Fairness from the last article, let’s move onto another concept that seems to affect a lot of people, causing indecision, hesitancy, uncertainty, and a lack of resoluteness in their life. I call it the Grass Is Always Greener Misconception, and it’s quietly destroying your ability to commit to anything long enough…
Does your happiness depend on what other people think? Read that again. Does it sound ridiculous? It should. But if you’re someone who constantly seeks approval, needs praise before you act, or measures your worth by how others respond to you, then congratulations. You’ve just outsourced your entire emotional wellbeing to people who probably aren’t…